Sex Toys for Girls: a First-Time User’s Guide
Read on to learn more about the range of sex toys available for girls. Whether you’re a first-time user who is looking to explore your own enjoyment, a regular user looking for something new or a couple who wants to add spice to the bedroom, there is a vibrator out there for you!
Sex toys for girls: a buyer’s guide
The internet has made it far more easy for women to purchase sex toys and the market has finally responded to women’s erotic interests by providing a wide range of female-friendly toys, gadgets, games and accessories to bring fun, love and interest to the bedroom. Whatever your interest or desire, there’s something for you. Remember, a partner isn’t necessary if you prefer to experiment alone!
Buzz your way to enjoyment
Vibrators are ideal for women looking to explore their own sexuality and they are enjoyed for a variety of reasons. Made infamous by the hit TV series, Sex and the City, many women became aware of the benefits of vibrating sex toys thanks to a raunchy storyline involving a legendary ‘Rabbit’! Some people like to enjoy using them with their partners, others prefer to explore their bodies and learn how to enjoy an orgasm alone, using one of the many vibrating products on the market.
You’ll find colours, shapes and sizes to suit and plenty of different settings, from the gentle buzz through to strong vibration and rotation! A great tip for first-time users is to opt for a relatively small vibrator that is user friendly and discreet. Try playing with it alone and get used to the sensations to explore what you enjoy. Perhaps then you can share your enjoyment with a partner. A vibrator can be a great way to learn about your body and these nifty gadgets are often used by women looking to reconnect with their sexuality and work out what really hits their pleasure buttons!
If you’re looking to start using a vibrator with a partner, try suggesting it out of the bedroom in a light-hearted way. Some men will feel uncomfortable, while others will love the idea of having a new way to pleasure their partner. If your partner does not seem keen, look at other similarly stimulating gadgets such as a cock ring, which can offer vibrating enjoyment for you both. Remember that lube is useful if you’re planning to use your vibrator internally and hygiene is essential; always wash your sex toy after use, ensuring that it is clean for the next time. Also, never use it interchangeably between your vagina and anus, as the vagina is a delicate place and can be easily upset!
Erotic videos and books
Women’s sexuality is strongly linked to imagination and creativity. Whereas men primarily respond to visual images with pornography, women often love context. So check out the female-friendly lines of pornography that offer erotic fiction and video at their best, with women visibly enjoying sex, themselves and their partners.
Outfits and accessories
Don’t forget the power of great underwear and the odd cheeky outfit either! There are a huge range of different underwear types available, whether you like raunchy animal print, cheeky marabou feathers, bold red silks or romantic pastels and ruffles. For outfits, you might wish to experiment with a little role play by dressing up as a French maid, naughty nurse, college girl, dominatrix or cat woman.
Maria John writes regularly on the subject of sex toys for a range of consumer magazines and publications. For more information on vibrators, visit misskinkys.co.uk.