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Four Tips for an Amicable Divorce

Submitted by on Thursday, 22 January 2015No Comment

divorce While over half of marriages in the United States end in a divorce, not all divorces have to be acrimonious and petty. It is entirely possible to have a good divorce, especially if you and your wife are still on friendly terms. If the passion has fizzled but you have no reason to be distrustful of your wife, here are four tips for a quick and fair parting that will let you continue your friendship while dissolving your union.

Hammer Out Property Division Yourselves

There is no reason to pay a arbitrator hundreds of dollars to decide who gets the garage-sale painting or the Oriental carpet in the den. Sit down with your spouse and hash out the details on your own. Keep a list of what is agreed upon and what is under dispute. This will give your legal representation a blueprint and will greatly reduce the time you spend reaching an agreement about property division.

Talk About Dividing Finances

In some cases, each spouse can take their own retirement accounts, split the profit from selling the house and call it square. Other couples will need to do some negotiating, especially if there is a joint business, burial policies or other joint ventures. Come up with a rough idea of what you both believe to be fair, if possible.

Discuss Custody of Children

Some divorced couples are still friendly enough to live on the same block or rent apartments in the same building. If very close proximity isn’t an option, discuss both of you residing in the same school district and, possibly, along the same bus route. This will make joint custody far easier. If you’re going to seek sole custody for any reason, speak to a lawyer before you discuss it with your spouse. You can check out a Cordell & Cordell site to find more information, or ask your legal counsel.

Decide Who is Paying for Legal Fees

They spouse seeking the divorce usually pays, unless there are other issues at play such as abuse, drugs, alcohol or abandonment. If you and your wife have decided together to split, you may decide to each pay half. In cases where one spouse make significantly more than the other, a percentage split may be more fair.

Deciding to divorce can be a heartbreaking experience, even if it is amicable. By keeping these tips in mind, you and your wife can make better choices and make the split as friends rather than bitter enemies.

For more information, visit the a Cordell & Cordell site.

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