The First Night of marriage
One of the memorable nights of everyone’s life is the first night after marriage when the couples meet, it is the long waited night for many people and despite that everybody remembers their first night after marriage irrespective of love marriage or arranged marriage. Rituals and rules are diverse among people from different religion, for desi woman, it is the third night after marriage that they get to know each other after marriage, but still that’s is the night they keep waiting for and try to make it better in every possible ways to memorize that for the rest of their married life.
There are general fears among girls about the sex in that night as they fear of the pain they will get during first time intercourse, due to the breaking of hymen. But the feeling is not so hurting to suppress the enjoyment and excitement of mating her life partner in the first night after marriage. There bleeding hurts a little for the first time but soon forgotten in pleasure of sexual intercourse. For men sometimes premature intercourse happens as his body didn’t feel this type of excitement before, but it will be adjusted over time.
It is not compulsory to have sex at the first night after marriage, neither that everybody will be perfect in sex, so being compassionate about each other also helps in excitement and pleasure. Kissing, hugging and messaging is a good way to show affection to your partner and if properly done, give better delight than mere sex. Also if you get disappointed on the first day on sex, give it time to do better and never force for having sex on the first night. Understand each other’s feeling and go when you both are ready for it, a good understanding is always better than bitterness of first night.