Women: How to seduce any man anywhere successfully
AskMamu now has a dedicated section for women only. If you have not read our previous articles on on this topic, be sure to read that first: 9 Ways to seduce a man in bed.
Apart from the obvious sexual tension, the art of seduction is an element of risk. This article provides ideas and suggestions to show you how to seduce a man successfully.
You have seen the man of your dreams and hope that, over time, you will both hit it off. You do your research and know he is single, where he lives and what he does for a living. The question is: how do you go from the simple observation of what to get to know better? Do not leave it to luck, fate or him. The power to seduce a man is all in how you approach it, act, dressed and speak. Follow the tips below to help you channel your inner goddess and learn seductive seduce any man she is interested in.
Seducing The Perfect Stranger
Learn to say hello to all people in a polite and friendly manner. If there is one man in particular you would like to know better, pause and say something like, “Hey, are you someone whom I should know better?” If he says yes, then ask him to say why. It is now for him to keep the conversation and find out if this man is shying, confident, or totally focused on himself.
A word of warning: do not try to seduce a stranger in public. For example, do not walk up to a man when he is having a drink or two with friends at a club/bar.
Even if he does talk to you, your responses will be natural as you are concerned about what his friends are thinking. You are more than likely to make fun of him after leaving. Instead, you should choose the time and place that is private and comfortable as you both need each others attention.
Seduce a date
So you have seen him a few times and want to set things in motion. You can suggest dinner and choose a restaurant with a cozy atmosphere. It need not be the hot spot of the city, but the choice of a small French, Indian, or any other exotic cusine restaurant is much better than dropping a McDonald’s for a quick burger before a movie. Mind you, it does not have to be a fancy restaurant, anything but fast food.
While you talking with him, you may feel like you are playing “verbal tennis.” What this means is that when you say something, he responds in an enthusiastic and interested ways. If you are caught suddenly and lost in words, quickly ask something in a way seductive way – lower the tone of your voice and pausing to look significantly in the eye while you blink your eyes smoothly at him. Your questions do not have to be deep, a simple, “What kind of music do you enjoy?” Or “What kind of movies do you Like?” or “How is the food or wine?” will be sufficient enough. The idea is to create a seductive facial expression that will get the man thinking in seductive ways.
Wear something that makes you comfortable and relaxed during the day. You do not want to worry that your short skirt is riding too high or that is pouring out of her low-cut blouse.
Finally, remember that just because you have come across as a seductive, does not mean you are forced to sleep with this man at the end of the night. Here’s a tip: you can be much more attractive to end the night with a long, long kiss. Tell him you’d like to see some time, but do say to him that you do not believe in rushing through anything.
Seducing your partner
When you have been in a relationship for some time, running through things can become a habit. You need to slow down. The next time you’re about to engage yourself in sexual activities with your partner, don’t just jump right into it. Instead, sit back and make him watch you while you strip-tease him. Don’t go all the way naked, be sure you still have your under garments on -the idea is to turn him on in a way that he wants to jump on you but do not let him. You are the queen of seduction and you are in control, remind your self that, tease him as much as you like… spanking him wouldn’t hurt (if you are into it, can be fun for both). If you’re concerned or feel embarrassed, use candle light only and when you are down to your undergarments you can grab the sheet and hide your self and control him and ask him to do things you desire as well. Be flirty and keep in mind that you don’t want to lose