What a women want?

June 23, 2009
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What women want in a man may not be what God wants them to have. What women want in a man is not as easily received as we may think. We have much to do with what we want from others.
-Diana Hagee

When we look at factors what women desired from men there’s more to it than just one key factor. There are actually a lot of factors involved in this whole process of “Wanted Relationship”. Perhaps this is why men get so confused and don’t understand how to influence a women attention.

Women have been programmed to seek out the male domination. Dominant men offer survival values, and this really works very well for the survival of the woman and her offspring. This increases the chances of her genes being passed on to the next generation.

Another most important factor that influences a women’s expectation from men is “A genuine feeling of respect”. Men are usually quite unaware of how much women need to be respected. The basic reason behind this fact is that many a times men took away the relation very lightly and some normal conflicts between both the sexes results in a powerful fatal aggression which results a disgraceful attitude from men and all the promises of respect vanishes away in few moments.

Again women want them to be listened, because they have a need and desire to be heard. Women want their man to express his feelings to narrate their grief in front of her, this makes a women realize how much importance she has in her man’s life. Real listening, with real intimacy, is rare. Real listening is suspending thinking about what to say and being deeply engaged in what she is talking about. Women want their man to trust her with his intimate side.

Another most important thing that women want in a man is his “Self Confidence”. Now, we say self confident. We didn’t say arrogant, obnoxious, filled with his own self-importance, or so narcissistic that he thinks he’s more special than any of the ordinary male in this world.

To achieve this self-confidence that women really want from their man, doesn’t mean that you turn into a macho man or develop a physique of Arnold Schwarzenegger. A man who is self confident believes that he have the capability to tackle adversity and believes so strong in himself that he isn’t threatened by an equally strong and self confident woman. That is one of the important features that a woman wants in a man.

Women always get infatuated by the man’s sense of humor. Women want a man with a absolute witty sense of humor. A man will always be loved and admired by her woman if he makes her laugh. If you are dull, you are boring. Take a chance, be real, but be funny. If you make a woman laugh, you’re halfway home.
Women want their men to treat them like they are the most gorgeous woman in the world and that no other woman compares. Talking to your women about other females or admiring other females will make her ignite. Treating her like she’s the only one will make her smile for quite a while.

Men need to appreciate women for the effort she goes through to be beautiful for him. It is important for women to love their body. Appreciating what women go through is a way to develop gratitude. An “attitude of gratitude” goes a long way to improving a relationship. He can compliment her and let her know she is beautiful to him and that she is “perfect” to him.

Sociologists and psychologists have studied women genes around the world for many decades trying to figure out what really women want. The researchers’ results may surprise you! What women want is driven primarily by ancient DNA from their female ancestors. And it is true for women in all cultures and in all countries. All women have powerful and similar deep needs in their DNA that greatly affect their daily moods, behaviors, and decisions.

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3 Responses to What a women want?

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