By: Goher Iqbal Punn, askMamu.com
In today’s world, where life seems so difficult to spend due to inflation and bad economic circumstances and all that, many guys are of the view that they want the wife who should have many qualities sans working status. Rarely any are found who demand a working woman. A research has been done on many guys about this topic and above ninety percent of them say they do not like working woman.
The qualities, most of the guys seek in their life partners are: she should be physically attractive, she can cook, she can take care of the house aptly, caring, loving and has a good sense of humor. The question arises as to why most of the boys do not find the working ladies attractive? The answer is vivid that they like their wives to give their family and home first priority. So they do not feel comfortable with a career lady who flaunts a bigger income.
Now we explore – Do men accept when their lady step out of the home for work? Does any storm take place when a woman goes for work? Are men finding it hard to accept a working woman as their better half? Or do they get along with the busy wives?
Many males are found dating with smart, gorgeous and career oriented girls. They discuss each and everything with them and find them better for spending time. But in the end, when the question of marriage arises, they prefer the girls who are simpler and have just finished the college. They do not like to tie the knot with the ladies they have been dating and find them suitable for them from all angles. They just want a girl who thinks that her husband is the leader of her life and everything makes round with him.
A renowned sociologist expresses the views on this matter, saying, “Since our society is still evolving, men are finding it hard to cope with their busy wives, especially in a scenario where a wife fares better than her husband. Jealousy and ego are the obvious by-products, which leads to acrimony in a relationship. Moreover, having a working wife as a partner means contributing to the household chores, which most men are not accustomed to. Sacrificing on ‘together time’ thanks to their wives’ working schedules is another factor, which men find tough to deal with. All these factors bring out the differences in a relationship. However, there are men who are immensely proud of their wives’ accomplishments.”
The differences occur and relationship starts ruining when the wife begins to earn better than her husband. The insecurity and feel threatened factor emerges within the husband. This is why men prefer domesticated wife. On the other hand, men do not like wife’s frequent business meetings, trips, long working hours and hefty cheques. They fear that success of their wives would reach their head and they will then stop respecting them.
Most of the men like the women as their wives who are dependent on them since they think that a woman who is dependent on them would make for a better wife. Men are of the view that well-educated and well-earning women have “bigger egos” hence they find it difficult to deal with them.
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Your article implies that a working wife is a nice option only not liked by only egoist males. As a matter of fact, you have not bothered to find the whole truth. In our culture, girls are not expected to shoulder any financial responsbility of family. So it is only in emergency where woman bear financial burdern of family, This is true even for the socalled modern woman. So what happens is that while you are expected to share in household work, she will expect you to bear all household expenditure. She herself will like to spend her money only on themselves. It is because of this double mindedness that mature males avoid herwhile others get this experience only after marriage. I am not even talking about office girls who get into affairs due to more freedom as I believe that some are not so.
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