Men always wonder why the girls never pick up the phone or call back after the first date… there are rules to every game, even to dating and to be successful in dating you too must consider these rules to win her heart. Here are ten rules to successful dating!
Rule # 1 – Switch off your mobile phone while on your date! Your partner gets the feeling of wasting his or her time with an inconsiderate, highly self-centered idiot when you keep yourself busy answering all kinds of calls during your date!
Rule # 2 – Avoid smoking while on your date especially if your date is not smoking! And in case if people around you are eating, then there would be nobody as stupid as you to smoke in that place. And this means when even if the people who are eating are smoking.
Rule # 3 – Do not brag about your achievements. Even if you are asked make it as brief as possible and do not over do. You will be much better off asking about your date’s achievements, interests and hobbies.
Rule # 4 – Genuinely complement your date. Look for something to compliment about during every meeting. However, there is only a thin line that separates flattering from complimenting. Whatever you compliment your date for, should be genuine, else it will become flattering which is not a good dating principle.
Rule # 5 – Smart casual wear is the way to go while dressing up for your first date. If you are a girl then avoid wearing excessive jewelry as it will make you look crass and cheap. Be simple and subtle. If you are a guy then do not cuss or swear. Most of the times it will make your date feel that you are ignorant and stupid.
Rule # 6 – For all those guys who are dating a girl – respect them from your heart and make them feel equal. This will help you in identifying whether or not they are a perfect match for you.
Rule # 7 – For all those girls – Guys love talking about their achievements and hobbies, hence if you do the same you can get them more interested in you.
Rule # 8 – Do not stuff yourself with food as if it is the last meal that you are going to have. Eat light so that you can do some post dining activities together with your date like dancing or going for a walk.
Rule # 9 – If you are a guy and you have enjoyed your date, thank your partner for having given you the perfect date and follow it up with a thoughtful gift such as flowers, etc at her work place or residence.
Rule # 10 – If you are a girl then do not ask your guy whether he will call again at the end of your first date. Moreover, try to make yourself unavailable immediately after the first date…you will find that men enjoy the chase.
Above all for all men, never ever talk about the past relationships with your date at least in the first few meetings!
Find out to salsa even if you have two left foot. Women love to salsa and it puts you two in close contact. It also loves. You can be the world’s best dancer, I don’t care. But if you stay seated when she is on that dance floor you may as well not exist. Try joining salsa and ballroom classes. You don’t want to be Travolta but you should have an idea of the essentials of pulse. Get started today.