The Thai girls often shave these days, at least the ones that are interested in hooking up with western men. The ones that live outside the tourist areas are completely different. Vietnamese girls are against shaving in general however.

In India the Moslem women shave but not the Hindus. In Indonesia it is pretty common that the women shave mostly due to Moslem traditions rather then western trends I guess.

To get me in the mood, I want a nice dinner. That doesn’t mean she has to cook, but we plan for something special, break out the nice dishes, dim the lights, light some candles, and put on some soft romantic music.

Then I’d like a romantic comedy. Something that gets me laughing, but also shows a guy and gal getting together. It pushes my mind further in that direction.

Combine that with some touching, kissing, and snuggling, then maybe take a shower or bath together, and I’m pretty much ready for action.

But when my girl walks around in a skimpy outfit, or just grabs for my unit, I balk. I’m not light a light that she can turn on in an instant.

Sadly, when we look up seduction, we keep finding articles like this that say a guy is always ready and just needs her to strut her stuff and away we go. It doesn’t work for me, and we both wind up extremely frustrated.

And for good reason. If it’s not head/facial decoration, hair is kind of gross. Especially on women. Women aren’t supposed to be hairy. This isn’t me talking, this is evolutionary biology. So you ‘deal with it’.

I am half-Japanese and I can’t believe my cousins don’t shave. It’s a huge obstruction for sex, it doesn’t look good at all (if you think it does that’s called a FETISH) and it doesn’t go with a bikini or tight undies.

It’s not that God damn difficult to shave/wax it. It takes a few minutes, and while the pubic area is sensitive it’s not made of tissue paper. A cut will be annoying but it’s not going to kill you. Anyone using that as a reason is either unreasonably paranoid or making excuses.